give this girl an ultimatum?

[milan_e]

sorry if this seems long, ok well back in late august i met this girl in one of my college classes. She seemed like a nice girl and we had good conversation, i could make her laugh. Then about two weeks later we went on out first "date", to the movies of course i paid for her. Then the next day while we were getting breakfest i told her i was inrested in her. Then she admitted she had a boyfriend but didnt want to tell me because she really enjoys my company. She said they have a long distance relationship, he lives a little over an hour away, he has no car to come see her and works around the clock. of course i was upset but i just smiled and said well im here as your friend. Ok fast forward to early november, by this point we have already been to the movies a few times together, hang out around campus, chillin in my room and watchin movies and texting each other thru the day. I feel like i know her alot better and we have so much in common and thats whats makin me mad cuz i could really see myself with her.I told her, again that i still thought she was cute and asked her if she could see herself with a guy like me, she said yes right away, but she was shy and nervous the whole time we was havin this discussion. She seems unsure about her current boyfriend. Now its been another two weeks, I even bought her home from school to meet my parents! I live alomost 2 hrs from the university. We had another good time hangin out and laughin. I was thinkin about givin her an ultimatum cuz i dont want to waste my time when i know i want to be more than just friends, does it sound like she likes me? should i give this ultimatum?

[Yinka_L]

leave her cos she is in love with someone else, go get a single girl

[lae09]

Give it to her! I mean u sound like a really cool and patient guy. And it sounds like you want to be with her a lot to me meeting the parents is a big deal. Sounds like she is wasting her time with her bf and she spends time with you whats the point in them being together??? GUD LUCK what ever you decide to do

[ason027]

I think she likes you. Possibly give her the ultimatum of you two dating, or you two cut off everything that could be seen as dating and only be friends. There is a reason why she is still hanging out with you all the time. I say give her an ultimatum but make sure that in some way you could still possibly be friends if nothing else works out.

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[Carolin]

If you tell her to either dump her boyfriend and date you or to stop leading you on, it seems a little harsh considering how well you two get along.

She obviously enjoys your company but feels guilty about hanging out with you so much. The fact that she has a boyfriend is most likely always on the back of her mind but she probably does not see anything wrong with hanging out with you as long as it doesn't become physical. I'm sure she'd hate to lose you but she would also hate to lose her boyfriend.

She's basically leading you on but you were willingly being led on until now. You have to understand that the chance of her ending things with her long-distance boyfriend are slim. I say that you tell her that you can't handle hanging out so much and her thereby seemingly leading you on but that you are not asking her to end things with her boyfriend either. Tell her that you want to know how she truly feels about you (I'm sure she has some feelings for you).

All the best.